Monday, 19 September 2011
But in fact few of us who are so fully accomplished! Most common complaint has always been surrounded miserable suffering, but happiness is a rare drought looks like rain. I always want lasting happiness, but most of it was disrupted because of negativity always intervenes.
So, happy only when sorrow, suffering completely absent. Tell the world to see the 'unrealistic' when everyone is waiting, hoping, looking for a completely happy without ever endured suffering.
The reason, I consider to be unrealistic because no matter whether we want everyone must go through suffering grief, from man to the rich to the poor, and probably from now until the eyes! What to say here is how do we convert them to achieve their goals liberation.
Flowers and grass in the Heart Land
The notion that every time I contact with suffering, their suffering is just find out more clues, his roots to help liberate. Thanks to these findings, I have the opportunity to clearly see the power of negativity and in my ignorance. As the method the Buddha taught the Four Noble Truths: firstly, their recognition of suffering (dukkha) and its causes (training base), then, I see this disease is treated or not (kill base) and how to treat (sole director).
Clearly, the sorrow, sorrow, anxiety, anger, jealousy, envy, lost love, green education, etc.. is the center of the seeds that generate suffering sprouting, and also if the seed is destroyed, the happiness, peace will arise.
As long as long as the bad seed care, watered, then the suffering, sorrow will grow deep roots. Original larger, deeper-in-law, the more difficult to eradicate. In the Central Business No. 64 - Great Business Man products pupil, the Buddha taught the five lower fetters (body reviews, facilities, gender hatred, greed, and pitch), is 5 the force that makes us unable to achievements are the results from the momentum-tu-a-la-complete to drought.
Only when we untie themselves, that eliminated five items required, then truly be free. In everyday life, for always being the center of negativity harassment, instead of mindfulness and awareness so that they self-destruct we watered and nurture them. Imagine if our mind is a piece of land out of crops that are growing most strongly in us? Of course, these crops because we care and nurture.
Nasruden Mulla decided to plant a flower garden. He prepared some ground and sow seeds of many kinds of beautiful flowers on it that he likes. But when they grow up, to grow his garden full of wild flowers dominating the beautiful flower he has chosen. He asked to look for experienced gardeners everywhere by just kill this kind of wild flowers, and have tried all methods of learning, but in vain.
Finally, he went to get the capital to ask for the guidance of the gardener in the palace. However, any way he teaches, as other ways Mulla has tried, failed. They sat together mused, thinking for a long time and finally the palace gardener said, "I suggest you learn to love them, more!"
Also, from now until the day pass from this world we are faced with distress and suffering. If we have missed many wild flowers growing in the garden of the mind, we must learn to love them as Mulla Nasruden did or try to destroy the seeds of wildflowers right now.
Bodhi negativity News
There is a story that a person has recently died and was born into a really beautiful place, surrounded with everything pleasures can not imagine. A busy white robes to greet him and said, "He has everything he could want - food, pleasure, everything entertainment."
He's really happy, and the day he tried all the dishes that he had dreamed the earth. But one day, he's bored with everything, and to call people to come and say, "I get everything here, I need something to do. He has something to do or not? "
The most sad shaking his head, then replied, "Excuse him. That's the only thing we can not meet his requirements. There is no work to do for him here at all! "
Play the most complete answer, he then said, "It is or not! I rather like living in hell. "
The servant went softly replied, "So what he thought he was staying here?"
Through stories, we find that experience: happiness or suffering affliction News News Bodhi. That is, like Bodhi achievements we must understand suffering for suffering, suffering which is the 'dark side' of the Mind.
Therefore, the opposite approach, or experience the affliction is unavoidable if we want enlightenment, liberation. It is a utopia if we just want to attain liberation, enlightenment without suffering, affliction.
However, it is Foreign Exchange Market OAM for us just want to practice how suffering should never be disturbed, just want to pursue the path that leads to happiness, freedom, and peace without facing the annoyance of the world! We hear and understand the path of 'Middle Path' that the Buddha taught, but I just pursue it and look forward to a path of 'unique' to cultivate 'for easy'!
Finding Deliverance in distress, suffering
If deep reflection we see that the germ of happiness is suffering and, conversely, the seeds of suffering there. It is important that our attitude in the face of suffering or happiness. As Rita Barber skillfully expresses in the following paragraphs:
"I can see the girls running into the room night is an act disturb my sleep, or whether it is a call for action would draw away, aware that this is a moment in the life of I need comfort because I have nightmares.
I can see the girl I dig the seeds that I have grown as a destructive act, damage, or as an act of curious children learn to find out what or who caused seeds into plants.
I can see my daughter refused to wear clothes I choose as an act of disobedience, or a desire to be free to choose.
I can see teaching as my daughter is a difficult challenge, or a teacher to teach me how to live.
I can see the crying of children um sum as a penalty against left worth, or are beginning to learn how I negotiated and peaceful coexistence with others.
Many times I felt challenged to do a gentle mother, but more than everything, I feel blessed and fulfilling than all these things can be bought in this world, and indeed honored because the little angels chose my mother, and also a student and her teacher.
I can see how this child is a debt past life or a priceless gift of heaven for.
When I looked, I saw God.
Coin has two sides, but although I was present, I have a winner. "
Rita Barber's attitude gives us a fresh insight into the phenomena and situations occurring in everyday life and how I reacted to them. Simply by looking and feeling (sensation) by yourself, we welcome with open arms, or rejected, frightening them. Thus, the phenomenon of suffering, affliction is not completely frightening and intimidating. It consists of feelings of insecurity, dissatisfactions, frustrated anger, irritability, etc.. and so on. but these factors is the source of stimulation that we rise up and find ways liberating, freedom. Missing them, we as lacking 'the essential driving force or' to make their efforts, to make people stand up.
Remember: the experience through suffering can we properly evaluate and understand the true value of happiness and peace as the Buddha himself experienced. The days of living in silk velvet, who most people down to the years of extreme asceticism together, the Buddha has realized the value of the two extremes - joy and pain.
Since then, he no longer suffering or joy that is the hindrance to the practice of his wife. Conversely, he considered them the source of inspiration to always be diligent in finding the path of enlightenment and liberation. It can be said of the experience through these two extremes the Buddha has found the middle way.
Obviously, they are the foundation, the roots to help find the truth the Buddha release. As always to agree that suffering, suffering is not quite the enemy of our lives; well as joy, happiness is not always the kind you eternity. Because without one, finding the path to enlightenment and freedom of our will can not be done.